Wednesday, December 17, 2025

The Girl on the Scooter: Why Dedication is the Universal Language

Some people leave an impression not by saying extraordinary things, but by quietly living an extraordinary level of discipline. I met someone like that in Ho Chi Minh City — and in less than a day, she reminded me what genuine passion and work ethic look like.


I had booked the “Saigon by Night” tour with XO Tours. It was a Monday, and I happened to be the only customer that evening. My tour leader picked me up from my hotel on her scooter, and for the next few hours, she rode me through different districts of Ho Chi Minh City — not just showing me places, but explaining Vietnam’s culture, food, history, and everyday life with clarity and pride.


During the ride, our conversations drifted far beyond tourism. We spoke about finance, investing, data analysis, Power BI, and career growth. At one point, she was genuinely surprised to learn that I teach many people these topics free of charge. She was even more surprised when I mentioned being selected to speak at an international conference in Singapore. What struck me wasn’t her reaction — it was the curiosity behind it. She listened carefully, asked thoughtful questions, and absorbed everything with intent.


As the evening went on, I learned more about her life.


She wakes up early every day and rides for more than an hour to attend university. In the evenings, she rides close to four hours again to work as a tour guide. This is not occasional effort — it’s a daily routine. No complaints. No dramatization. Just consistency.


She casually mentioned that three years ago, she had almost no English-speaking skills. Today, she describes herself as “still improving.” Honestly, her English was far beyond that — fluent, confident, and enriched with strong vocabulary. More importantly, she communicated ideas clearly, which is a far rarer skill than simply knowing words.


What impressed me the most was not her language ability or her schedule — it was her humility. Despite juggling studies and work, she still made time to help me later by responding to my messages between her busy commitments. No obligation. No expectation. Just kindness.


As an immigrant myself — someone who had to learn, adapt, upskill, and push hard to survive and grow in Australia — I naturally gravitate toward people like her. People who quietly give 200% to their education, their work, and their future. People who don’t wait for perfect conditions to begin, but instead build capability one day at a time.


It reminded me that no matter where we are in the world—whether navigating the streets of Saigon or the corporate world in Australia—passion and sincerity are the most powerful currencies we have.


Miss Trang - I met her for less than a day.

But the impression she left will stay with me much longer.


Sometimes, inspiration doesn’t come from stages or success stories.

It comes from a scooter ride through city streets, led by someone who simply refuses to settle for less than their potential.

Sunday, October 18, 2015

Wish I could

Like a sea breeze on a Saturday morning
U steal my senses with that powerful smile
Wish I could hold u and look deep
Into your eye and blow my mind

Wish I could hold u now
How I.. wish I could hold u now
Honey. . never will I hurt u
How I. . wish I could hold u now

U talk to me once in a blue moon
I'll wait for the perfect time
No matter how many times I practice
I never can deliver perfect lines
Credits to those eyes

Wish I could take u home
Baby. . u r a part of life
Wish I could kiss ur forehead
How I.. wish I could call u wife

Wish I could hold u now
How I. . wish I could hold u now
Honey. . never will I hurt u
How I. . wish I could hold u now

R a k i : Wish I could

R a k i : Wish I could

Sunday, August 30, 2015

UNCONDITIONAL

Every weekend on a Saturday morning I plan to pen down few words but like most of my plans, it goes down untouched. Don’t know if it is because of the tiresome previous week that I had spent at work, or my slowly disappearing passion for writing.
   A series of busy days keeps us occupied throughout, to keep up with the materialistic world around, giving us no room to think about doing something unconditional for others. I know many of us would have thought about engaging in charity, however the reason why we engage is different. Most of us including myself have thought about offering things which we ‘do not use’ or ‘can manage without’ to people who are in need of it. ‘Help’ in today’s world has been redefined. Even though it is meant to be void, today, help is expected to return a favour which could be money, person, popularity or in a few cases help is expected to return help itself. We call it as a win-win situation. When was the last time we helped someone unconditional? Have we ever helped someone to achieve something and totally forget about it? If the answer is no, we are missing the essence of humanity. Most of us have the potential to help a friend, colleague or a family member when they ask, however if the act is making us feel that we deserve a favour in return, then it disqualifies the act from being called as Help. It is delusional and in other words be called as a transaction. If you debate that nothing in today’s world is free, well my friend, we receive a lot of things everyday for free, which we fail to realise. A little bit of unconditional extra effort differentiates help from being called as a business and makes us realise the greater potential in us (humans). Unconditional help does not have to be on a large scale, to be organised as a mega event. It can be offered any time, can also be mixed with the everyday routine work that we do. Cooking breakfast for your family every morning just because you want to, travelling miles to offer a ride to a friend just because you wanna see him, getting an extra set of clothes for your siblings just because it makes you happy. There are a lot more things in our life to which we could add some essence through being unconditional. If you know somebody who does it, treasure them. People like them are hard to find in today’s acquisitive world. If you have already been doing it, be happy, your attitude is making a difference in lot of lives everyday!

Monday, July 4, 2011